What would you do if you were stuck in a room with a girl who claims that Christ took her heart before he took her head (but still graduated summa cum laude from one of the most prestigious universities in the country AND is hilarious), a guy who crashed face-first onto a wall which you're supposed to jump over (amid cheers of Brock! Brock! Brock!), and a guy who peed in his pants in the first grade during a spelling bee-in front of everyone (and also happens to be the female heart-throb of Newman, enthralling his audiences and wooing all the women with his crazy awesome impersonation of the Beatles). Well that's basically what happened to me last Saturday and I realized that Katy Malley, Brock Perkes, and Eric Nyberg are all people you MUST meet during your stay at Newman. All of them have a great sense of humor and diverse interests, and are all Resident Advisors on different floors at Newman, so you know that they're responsible.
As Resident Director, Katy Malley is always looking for cool, innovative ways to reinvigorate the lives of each and every Newmanite so that we may all develop close-knit relationships with God and our peers, enabling us to experience the awesomeness of Newman, which has captivated her so much. About her team and her overall experience in this profession, she feels as if she couldn't have asked for a better job Where else can you find an occupation that lets you hang out with your friends all day, every day? Her faith and love for God is evident in her life but I really encountered it-not when I saw her at RCIA meetings, but when she told me that her time at Newman has totally changed her perspective on life. When asked why she is always so happy, she responded by saying, "I'm full of joy because of God; my heart longs for the things that are good. He changed what I want for myself, what I want for other people, what I want for my future." Seriously, I think everyone living here should take an hour out of their busy schedule to meet this straightforward, humble girl whose office is impossible to avoid when walking into the building, and whose favorite date was not when someone spent tons of money on her but rather when she went on a long walk and stopped at a coffee shop for a cup of tea.
Brock Perkes is a character; if you look him up on Facebook you'll find groups attempting to take him out and trying to corrupt his innocent mind in a multitude of ways. This guy, whose proudest moment was getting rejected from Notre Dame (more on that later), is the Assistant Resident Director of Newman Hall and organizes a wide variety of activities for the enjoyment of all the residents here. When he says that his proudest moment was getting rejected from Notre Dame, he means that because it was his childhood dream to go there. He spent hours and hours practicing for the ACT taking classes and practice tests, just to get into Notre Dame, but it was all in vain. This dude, in a moment where the rest of us would probably lose all hope and try to find ways of running away from home, saw that as a turning point in his life. In his own words, he realized that, "In life, all you can control is the effort. The challenges you face and all the other circumstances you encounter are unchangeable and must be accepted for what they are. All you can control is the way you respond to those challenges by the effort you continue to put in to persevere and achieve your goals…A lot of times, college kids live in a paradigm; they think they know what's best for them. For me what I thought was ideal was getting into Notre Dame, but looking back I realize that God has a way of showing you what you are truly called to do, and it doesn't always line up with what you want at the time." This guy, whose favorite color is sky blue (and who just got back from sky-diving AND sailing last weekend) considers his ideal date to be one in which he would go out for a cup of hot chocolate and, after a long walk on the quad, and play ping-pong ALL night long. If you happen to have a sudden urge to listen to classical music, play softball, golf, chess, or ping-pong, or just do something crazy, don't be afraid to hunt down this awesome human being.
Being an RA, Eric Nyberg is in charge of making sure that all Newmanites live a life of discipline and abide by the rules, but also have fun. He likes softball, volleyball and swimming, acting and music. He feels that Newman has given him the best possible environment to grow socially and spiritually. According to him, "Those two go hand in hand because the people I end up hanging out with tend to have strong faith lives, which leads them to have healthy relationships with friends and a good sense of morality." Eric Nyberg, who ran for Mr. Newman Hall twice, said his proudest moments are usually ones when he has let go of something in order to let someone else get what they wanted. "Sometimes it's hard," he said. "But when I'm able to do that for someone, I feel good within myself." Like Brock and Katy, a good date for Eric would be pretty simple, as long as there's a lot of time to just talk together. If anyone ever wants to discuss classical music or classic rock, movies, and even swing dancing, don't hesitate to contact this hot blond.
God Bless You,
Jerry George Vachaparambil